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Cats have a reputation for being quite independent animals and detached from people, but ¿How true is this statement? The truth is that the vast majority of people who have lived with cats throughout their lives, flatly deny that their cats are not affectionate or, at least, they know that some cats are more affectionate than others.
Knowing your pet is vitally important to interact positively with him and live harmoniously without misunderstandings or false expectations, which can be really harmful for your furry. For this reason, if you are interested in knowing if cats are affectionate, Read this AnimalWised article in which we tell you how cats love and show affection.You may also be interested in: Do cats feel cold? Index
- Do cats love their owners?
- How do cats express affection?
- Affectionate cat breeds
Do cats love their owners?
When we compare a dog to a cat, the overwhelming way that dogs show affection compared to felines is obvious. It seems as if the dogs are unable to hide their joy at seeing us: they wag their tails, they jump from one side to the other, they lick us… Cats, on the other hand, seem more introverted animals, which they don't have big parties by showing us their love, but that doesn't mean they don't love us or cats don't have feelings.
The main difference between a dog and a cat is how they have learned to relate to us through the ages, because dogs have been domesticated longer, they have moved away from their ancestors, the wolves, to adapt to us, becoming much more expressive and winning the hearts of many.
On the other hand, the way cats behave and express themselves is much more instinctive and it has not evolved so much with human contact. This does not imply that cats do not love their owners, but that their way of expressing it has not evolved together according to us and, therefore, it is humans who have adapted to them.
For your cat, you are his figure of reference and attachment, for you provide care and protection, just as his mother did. For this reason, cats that have been raised from a young age with people often express themselves as puppies to express their needs. Hence the belief that cats are selfish animals, but nothing is further from the truth, as this fact only reflects how much your cat trusts you and how important you are to him..
How do cats express affection?
Cats also have their own way of expressing their emotions towards us, some may be really clear signs of affection, while others are a bit more subtle. Understanding your cat is key to getting along with him, so let's look at the multiple ways to express affection that cats have:
- Purrs: without a doubt, this is the main means that cats have to express that they feel happy and at ease. For this reason, when you are with your cat, it is unable not to purr.
- It rubs against you: when a cat rubs against a person or object, either with the head, with the side of the body, etc., it is leaving its aroma. They do this because they want to make sure they make it clear to other cats what their family and territory are. Therefore, having it rubbed against you or other individuals shows your pertinence to the group and acceptance..
- Lick you: mutual grooming is part of the usual behavior in cats that belong to the same group. It is their way of leaving their characteristic smell and taking care of each other.
- Follows you everywhereIt is common for a cat who feels a deep attachment to his human guardian to constantly follow him through all the rooms of the house. In some cases, some owners even comment on how surprised they are because their cats call them when they lock themselves in the bathroom.
- Stares at you: For one cat to stare at another can be an aggression, but if your cat stares at you placidly, it is the opposite, because he does not feel threatened by you and is curious about what you do. Also, he may be trying to get your attention.
- He comes to greet you when you get home: it is not strange that your cat comes to greet you at home when you arrive, because it misses you when you are not there.
- Shows you the belly: When your cat shows you his belly, it is usually because he wants you to pay attention to him, but it is also a clear indication that he trusts you, because the belly is a very vulnerable area for him.
- Sleep with and / or on top of you: when a cat sleeps deeply with its owner, it does so because by his side he feels comfortable and safe from threats, because when sleeping he is completely unprotected.
- Meows youWhen a cat wants to get attention to get something from you, it usually resorts to meowing. This is not only done because he wants you to fill his bowl with food, but he may want you to simply spend some time with him, stroking him or playing, for example.
- Brings you "gifts "Although it may not be the most pleasant token of love for owners, it is certainly the intention that counts, since it is common for cats to bring their freshly hunted prey (insects, mice, birds…) to their owners as an offering.
You may also be interested in this other article about 10 signs that your cat loves you.
Affectionate cat breeds
In the same way that people, each individual is a world. For this reason, we cannot fall into the expectation that all cats behave in the same way and are just as affectionate. There will be some more friendly and expressive, and others who prefer to show their affection from a distance and dropper. Now, whether or not a cat is more affectionate is influenced by two main factors: genetics and environment.
We understand how genetics the innate biological predisposition in the animal. In many cases, this is determined by the race (or races, if it is mixed), as there are races known to be very affectionate due to how they have been selected over time for their character, such as:
- Siamese cat.
- Maine coon.
- Exotic cat.
- Burmese cat.
- Bombay cat.
- Havana cat.
- Persian cat.
- Scottish fold cat.
- European common cat.
For ambient We refer to how the animal has been raised, that is, its environment and learning. For this reason, a cat that as a puppy has been correctly socialized and has maintained contact with people, he will be much more tame and affectionate than one who has not grown up in a family environment. Similarly, a cat that has had bad past experiences or that his owners do not know very well how to relate properly to him (for example, if they are excessively affectionate and do not respect his individual space), he will be more averse to contact and surly in general.